Life is a game. Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn, By Chandru

Most of us think that we will be happy, if we have no fears, always tasting success in whatever jobs, we take, lots of money to spend. Happy / Satisfaction is not a permenant state of human being. But we want happiness almost all of the time. Apart from this, some says Attitude determines happiness.

How can we acheive all this? Almost all people wants inspiration from others/books/great personalities to get persipiration. This is like a tiny spark plug in our bike, Which gets us started. This clearly shows Unity/Team work/being a social animal is a must for human being to taste happiness in his life. What I felt that, we can be happy, if we don't take failures seriously, given that , u didn't let it fail on its way. I.e u didn't even tried !!!

First of all, our worries makes us to fail, our worries takes all the bandwidth of our time. ( Worries leads to Miseries ) So, Lets not worry abt past or future, Let not worry about tommorrow's darkness.

Thinking in terms of Big picture, Helps us to acheive work in hand, I can proove this, For example: If u taken an object/atom/or whatever under microscope
You will get lot of knowledge, But that knowledge will be useless, if u don't know why u are collecting / processing it. i.e correlating like WBC count and RBC count related to Blood investigating Cancer. So, given your work, U have to think in new horizons/directions, where ur work will be utilised/realised. Then get the whole big picture then u can think small.
Also, You should priortize ur work, which is most important. Most of our time, will be wasted in decisions, always we will be worried in deciding whether its a right or wrong decision, If u had prirotized ur work, This will not have problem. Yes, if u value and respect the time, Then you can taste success.

What about Atitude, Atitude is related to your interests to the work bestowed upon you. Atitude means degree of willingness. How atitude keeps u happy, It keeps u happy by making ur life with minimal conflicts. Attitude is the thing that hurts other people, not you. Since human is a social being, It costs us a lot , if it hurts someone. So we can acheive, what others mean A good Atitude. First of all, Think through other's perspective/term, Then u will come to know u are right or wrong, Often Mirrors reflect You. Always Don't think of Failures, That will make ur Attitude a negative atitude.

Lastly, Never stop acheiving, When we taste success, we feel satisified, and we become lazy, Because our Pride Gets Into picture. Self pride shall be there, But not Excessive pride, Let our self pride guide all the way. You must not consider a Failure as a Failure but as a learning activity. You must not consider success as a goal, Its a journey.

Chandru